Guide
How Do You Choose a Real Estate Agent as a First-Time Buyer?
Last updated:
A good buyer's agent does far more than unlock doors. They translate the market, write a competitive offer, hold the timeline together, and protect your interests when emotions run high. Here is how to find one and what to expect from the relationship.
What a buyer's agent actually does
A buyer's agent represents you - not the seller - through the transaction. Day to day, that means searching listings against your criteria, pulling comparable sales to suggest an offer price, writing the contract with the right contingencies, coordinating inspections, negotiating repairs or credits, and managing dozens of deadlines between contract and closing. They also serve as a neutral voice when a deal hits friction.
Understand how agents get paid (2024 changes)
Real estate compensation changed materially in August 2024. Buyers must now sign a written agreement with their agent before touring homes that explicitly states how the agent will be paid. Compensation can be offered by the seller, paid by you directly, written into your offer as a seller concession, or a combination. The total is fully negotiable, and there is no standard percentage.
Before signing anything, ask: How much will I owe you, in what scenarios, and for how long? The answer should be in writing and unambiguous.
Questions to ask a prospective agent
Treat it like hiring a contractor. Ask any agent you are considering:
- How many transactions did you close last year, and how many were buyer-side?
- What neighborhoods or price ranges do you work in most often?
- Do you primarily represent buyers or sellers? Do you ever do both on the same deal?
- Walk me through what happens between contract and closing.
- How do you handle multiple-offer situations? Inspection negotiations?
- What does your buyer agency agreement look like, and what is the term?
- Can you share a few past client references?
Look for someone who explains things clearly, has real experience in your market, and treats you the same way after you sign as before.
Red flags to watch for
Be cautious if an agent pressures you to make an offer the same day, refuses to put compensation in writing, dismisses your questions about contingencies, regularly does dual agency, or will not share references. The agent who works hardest for your business before you sign is often the one who works hardest for you after.
Fit matters as much as resume
You will spend weeks or months in close contact with this person, often making the largest financial decision of your life. Communication style, responsiveness, and trust matter as much as transaction count. Pick someone whose calls you will actually want to take.
What to expect from the working relationship
A good agent sets expectations early: how often they will send listings, how quickly they respond to questions, who on their team handles what, and how decisions and documents will flow. They should never make you feel rushed - your interest and theirs should be aligned around finding the right home, not the next one on the calendar.
Frequently asked questions
Key takeaways
- Buyers must sign a written buyer agency agreement before touring homes, following the August 2024 NAR settlement.
- Agent compensation is fully negotiable and there is no standard percentage.
- A fiduciary duty requires the agent to put your interests above their own, including loyalty, confidentiality, and full disclosure.
- Dual agency, where one agent represents both buyer and seller, is legal in most states but creates conflicts of interest.